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Friday, August 28, 2009

Ideals and Reality

Arunav doesnt fancy writing his summer journal now..... it is done as a chore which he tries to wriggle out of using thousand excuses.

I would have loved to be the mother who praised every effort of his and did not criticise the forgotten 'capital after full-stop', 'found instead of fuond' - but I did and I feel miserable and responsible for his 'dont like writing journal' attitude. I did praise him for many of the stuff - but I think it is more important "to not criticise" than "to praise".

Why is it so hard to keep up with the "mother I want to be" :(

2 Comments:

At 4:29 AM, Blogger Unknown said...

Sulata,
Amer mone hoy tui thik korechis. Ami ekta topic alochona sunchilum NPR( Nation Public radio) te je ekhon ker Kids are somuch praised that they do not know to stand a criticism. Rude way te na bolei holo. Ami jani tui rude way te bolbi na.

 
At 7:15 AM, Blogger Tuya said...

Thik rude noy, kintu criticism ta ektu onyo bhabe korte hoy - khela'r chhole othoba, aage bhalo feedback ta diye tarpore - anyway, jai hok - o beta to journal likhte chaina :( Shob bachchader-i eki obostha, tao amar mone hoy ami cheshta korle eta control korte partam....

 

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